Day 1

Okay. I attempted this before and failed miserably, but after yet another guy has stated that while he can sleep with me, he cannot be in a relationship with me, I've had it. It's time for attempt number 2 at the self-imposed year of celibacy. Some space with just myself and my friends sounds better than wasting more time chasing after some man who will most likely have commitment issues. I'm not saying that all the men I've dated are evil. In fact, I've liked all of them. I hope to stay friends with most of them. That said, I'm ready to be in a long term relationship, but if no one else is, I'm not going to get into these short-lived messes anymore.

So.
My gameplan is to spend a full 12 months focusing on improving my day to day life, my writing, my health, my home, and my relationships with my friends. I'm going to get back out and start enjoying my city more fully. I'm going to do things that make me excited and happy. I'm going learn something new.

Today is day 1, and right this second I sitting with a friend, writing, and eating chocolate. These are all good things.

Wish me luck